{"id":35246,"date":"2022-11-20T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-11-19T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tcmonthly.tzuchiculture.org.tw\/?p=35246"},"modified":"2022-12-30T18:09:59","modified_gmt":"2022-12-30T10:09:59","slug":"the-ability-to-listen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tcmonthly.tzuchiculture.org.tw\/?p=35246","title":{"rendered":"The Ability to Listen"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"35246\" class=\"elementor elementor-35246\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7500b0d8 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7500b0d8\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-27c8a5cf\" 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Listening involves compassion, empathy, and the willingness to extend understanding to another.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3ea462ec elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3ea462ec\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1247a1e1\" data-id=\"1247a1e1\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3af0643c elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"3af0643c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4f08b3a5 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-stretched elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4f08b3a5\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;stretch_section&quot;:&quot;section-stretched&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2072626\" data-id=\"2072626\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-feefa57 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"feefa57\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.8.1 - 13-11-2022 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1440\" height=\"956\" src=\"https:\/\/tcmonthly.tzuchiculture.org.tw\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2022\/12\/Ability-to-Listen-pix.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tcmonthly.tzuchiculture.org.tw\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2022\/12\/Ability-to-Listen-pix.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/tcmonthly.tzuchiculture.org.tw\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2022\/12\/Ability-to-Listen-pix-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tcmonthly.tzuchiculture.org.tw\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2022\/12\/Ability-to-Listen-pix-1024x680.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tcmonthly.tzuchiculture.org.tw\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2022\/12\/Ability-to-Listen-pix-768x510.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tcmonthly.tzuchiculture.org.tw\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2022\/12\/Ability-to-Listen-pix-330x220.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7882b666 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7882b666\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-56d0d2cf\" data-id=\"56d0d2cf\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ac61205 elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ac61205\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Many years ago, a student of mine told me he heard a goose laughing. I teased him for being inattentive, telling him that geese don\u2019t laugh\u2014they honk. And just recently, a friend of mine began losing his temper frequently, snapping at others. I figured something was wrong with him and tried to ignore him. He complained a lot too, which drove me further away from him.<\/p><p>What is the thread connecting these two stories? It\u2019s that they show I lacked the ability to really listen, something that my student who could hear the goose laughing probably possessed.<\/p><p>What is the ability to listen? A person who can listen patiently and compassionately never derides others for what they say. A person who can listen attentively and sincerely never turns a deaf ear to others; they hear what is really troubling the speaker and can detect their fear and anxiety. They can even hear cries for help from people whose temper has gotten the better of them.<\/p><p>In fact, most people who have a bad temper or who like to complain are that way because they have not received enough love in their lives. When you listen with sincerity, attention, and compassion, you encourage them to give voice to their problems. Even if what they say is full of misguided views and prejudices, they very likely will become more peaceful because of your patient listening ear.<\/p><p>Many people take their problems to Dharma Master Cheng Yen and ask for her advice and guidance. You can sometimes even see them, deeply troubled by their problems, crying in front of the Master. But it often happens that just a couple of words from the Master can soothe their pain, perhaps even make them laugh through their tears. How does the Master do it? She stresses the importance of observing and listening with compassion and wisdom.<\/p><p>The Master once explained the importance of listening with care by telling a story about an impoverished woman and Ananda, one of the Buddha\u2019s disciples.<\/p><p>In the story, the impoverished woman took a detour whenever she saw the Enlightened One coming her way; she did her best to always avoid him. Everyone was perplexed by her behavior and thought it very strange. After all, the Buddha was held in high esteem by many people. They couldn\u2019t understand how the woman could dislike him so much that she went out of her way to elude him.<\/p><p>The Buddha explained that the woman\u2019s behavior was because he had failed to form good affinities with her in a previous life. Ananda, on the other hand, was just the opposite. He had formed very good affinities with the woman.<\/p><p>To prove this, the Buddha instructed Ananda to go to the woman. He told his disciple that the woman would follow him back to himself. Though doubtful, Ananda did as he was told. As the Buddha had predicted, the woman followed Ananda to the Buddha obediently.<\/p><p>The Enlightened One then told everyone what had happened between the three of them in a former life.<\/p><p>Many, many eons ago, two monks went begging for alms together. On their way, they saw a woman crying. The monk who walked in front asked the woman why she was crying so sadly. The woman said: \u201cMy husband passed away, and my son died in an accident too. I have no one to rely on now. That\u2019s why I\u2019m so sad.\u201d The monk told the woman: \u201cDeath is just a part of life. There is no need to be sad and cry about it.\u201d Having said that, he went on his way. As soon as he walked away, the woman began crying even harder.<\/p><p>Seeing this, the second monk approached the woman and asked what was troubling her. The woman repeated what she had just said to the first monk. The second monk took great pity on her and tried to soothe her the best he could. He took out a handkerchief and handed it to the woman for her to wipe her tears away. With a voice full of compassion, he encouraged her to be strong. Drying her tears, the woman felt greatly soothed. She felt this spiritual cultivator in front of her truly understood her and empathized with her grief.<\/p><p>The Buddha told everyone that the first monk was him, and the second was Ananda. \u201cI was too rational. Ananda was more empathetic and compassionate. The good affinities he formed with the woman planted the seed that caused joy to rise in her heart at the sight of him.\u201d<\/p><p>By listening with compassion, Ananda gave the woman comfort and relieved her pain, sowing a good karmic seed in the process. We can all learn from Ananda and try to be a person who listens with understanding and brings relief to others. We may help someone through a hard time in their life, while at the same time forming positive affinities with them.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6c504c94 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6c504c94\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7c2af650\" data-id=\"7c2af650\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2c04a114 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"2c04a114\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"189\" height=\"170\" src=\"https:\/\/tcmonthly.tzuchiculture.org.tw\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2022\/07\/\u82f1\u6587\u9801\u5c3e-2.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is more to listening than simply hearing another person. 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